$333.00 USD

 

Shadow Games

How would it feel it to walk past a group of 17 male construction workers oogling your hot bod….

….and instead of feeling like you’d rather shoot yourself in the left foot than walk by them…

…you feel genuinely thrilled, in control, and like a badass dom bitch with “look harder, I dare you” energy.

What if instead of helping your friend through her breakup with that narcissistic fuck boi and feeling like YOU need to sleep for 186 hours and binge eat s’mores made from mealy graham crackers at 2am….

….You walk away from the hard conversation with genuine trust in her journey, ENERGY???, and the ability to still sleep like a tiny baby??

What if you could simply laugh at (and with) your most sinister intrusive thoughts — even the ones that would make Marc Rebillet shake in his slippers??

What if you woke up in a mood more disoriented than Hilary fucking Clinton on the day Trump took presidency…

…but 20 minutes later you genuinely felt grounded/fine/neutral/even joyful?? Can you imagine???

Yum.

I’m having fun, so let’s do a few more. HEAR ME OUT—

WHO WOULD U BE if people on the internet told you you’re an ugly piece of shit whore slut dickhole on the internet and you cackled and moved on with your life?

LISTEN MY LOVE—

What if you could look back at all the shit you’ve been through, think, “it all makes sense,” and feel your heart glowing with serenity?

What if you simply could make more money? And all your desires for MORE were valid?

What if you could *****finally****** be able to experience your body as the joy-giving, life-affirming, hilarious, beautiful, deeply wise vehicle it is during your precious earthly incarnation?

What if you could *****finally***** experience yourself as the whole, adorable, mind-blowingly perfect, delightful human bean that you are…no matter what your mood was?

I really want you to sit with these “what if’s”….

& feel what would change in your life.

…Because these are the exact results I have gotten through practicing the combination of Existential Kink and Emotional Freedom Technique.

I’ve legit never seen a course like this one. Ever.

I’m honored to be the steward of it.

Join me on the magical, thrilling, delectable, sexy, weird, delightful, joyful ride of somatic shadow work in Shadow Games, where you learn to internally alchemize pain to pleasure.

Pleasure is your birthright.

Remember who you are.

What People Are Saying:

Through coaching with you, I’ve learned how to connect to my own higher power. I’ve been able to experience myself from a place that I’ve never experienced myself from before. Being able to see myself for who I am and love and honor her has been the greatest gift.

My biggest challenge when we first started working together was not knowing how to claim my boundaries and how to allow myself to feel my feelings. Because of your coaching, I’m able to process my feelings and give myself permission to create boundaries in my relationships and not feel guilty about these boundaries or feel a sense of abandonment. I had so much of shame and guilt around creating boundaries, and have felt a removal of this shame. Coaching with you has been the greatest testament of my reattachment to myself. You’ve created a safe space for me to show up and do this work.

While Danelle provides the space and tools to heal what you want to heal, she does so while reminding you that who you are makes sense because of the experiences that shaped you, and that you are worthy just as you are at every step of your journey.

So, my favorite part of doing this work has been the permission to accept and to be myself - the "good," the "bad," and the "ugly" - even as I work to create more inner peace. I always thought I had to strive to be an emotionally neutral robot that never gets triggered, but Danelle taught me that I have both the responsibility to heal my trauma and also to distinguish boundaries (when to recognize that the past is triggering me vs. when to stand/speak up for myself). My biggest transformation came when Danelle told me "there's no such thing as 'inappropriate,' that I myself am not inappropriate, and that what I say is neutral depending on the group to whom I say it. As someone who often shame-spirals and overthinks during social interactions (and before and after, haha), you can imagine the relief I felt releasing yet another burden of perfectionism. This epiphany taught me that learning what to say and to whom is just another skill to be honed and not an unalterable deficit on my part.

For so long, I’ve worn a mask. People have told me I should “hurry up and let this (trauma) go…just move on,” and Danelle helped me realize it’s okay to be where I am and to feel how I feel. Danelle has helped me feel validated, and like I’m not crazy. Danelle helped me recognize that I’ve been through a lot, and it makes sense why I feel how I do. ​ Danelle also helped me notice how my body responds to certain emotions...and that I'm allowed to feel those emotions. That has been so helpful for me. ​ This experience has given me so much comfort with the fact that I’m still processing my past experiences. I feel comfortable saying, “where I am now is okay...it's exactly where I should be." ​ Through coaching with Danelle, I've also learned to take ownership of my journey.

I’m now able to have hard conversations without breaking down, and without it ruining my day. I’m able to be vulnerable and honest while having hard conversations without allowing emotions to overwhelm me. I feel like I can now have hard conversations, and emotionally regulate. ​ I’m able to sit with my emotions and express myself without freezing or retreating. I don’t let my emotions shut me down anymore. ​ I’ve also become so good at expressing my boundaries, needs, and holding people accountable. ​ I’ve had breakthroughs on so many levels since working with Danelle. I’m noticing people I love growing with me, instead of away from me. The fear of growing out of my close relationships had kept me from actually working on myself for a very long time. Danelle helped me shift decades-worth of negative thinking, conditioning, and maligned beliefs. Working with Danelle has been life-changing! But the best part is that Danelle guided me to be able to achieve these things on my own, which shows that I have made real, lasting, change.

The biggest thing that has happened from coaching with Danelle is I’m more in tune with who I really am. I know myself now. I feel so much more honest and self-aware. I used to be so self-conscious…and I would feel so guilty for the way I felt. I always thought that when people behaved badly around me that it was about me not being enough in some way…plus I would make excuses for them. I’m understanding that so many negative things are not worth my energy anymore. I feel lighter and free. Something I’ve learned coaching with Danelle is that I have all the insights within me, which has been the most valuable realization. Danelle helped me be able to figure things out on my own. I’ve been having those light-bulb moments where I think, “oh my god, it all makes sense.” I am so grateful.